Her: hows life? Whats new?
Her: your love life? Crush on someone?
Me: why everyone keep asking me that question…
(In my head, theres someone keep talking about me… to some people.. im in a relationship. .. Well lets play the game)
Me: well actually theres someone
Her: who is it?tell me… tell me (nagging me)
Me: tell a random name guy of someone i just met recently to see the reaction in her face…
(Tactic: the first rumor who came to my ear with a specific name, i will know whos the big mouth…Be careful girl!)
"I’m not calling you a slut I’m calling you a penny; because your two faced, worthless, and in everybody’s pants!"
We all have that someone that we call our best friend. That person we can tell them nothing and anything to and have so much fun with, have tons of inside jokes with, always count on each other.
How we meet those friends depends. Maybe you have mutual friends or whatever!
Then there’s the term “BFF”- Best friends forever. We’ve used that term so many times, maybe overused it. After using it so many times, I’ve realized, it’s so false.
I mean don’t get me wrong, I’ve had some great BFF’s. I loved them all and had so much fun with. They were all there for me when I needed them and we all had some great memories. But that’s all they are now. Memories.
I actually got in a fight with a best friend and stopped being friends with her for my next best friend. If I could take one thing back in life, it wouldnt be that: be friend with her. But other than that, how do we lose friends? The reason is Change.
Us and the world is constantly changing. Especially as teenagers. We might like something one day and hate it the next. We might suddenly want something more than anything and we could care less after.
All my friends changing has taught me to let go. My most recent ex-best friend, we became friends in 3th grade and our friendship lasted until first grade in college. I could feel the ending coming for a while, I was just holding it off because I didn’t want it to happen.
We used to be so alike and love doing the same things, and we had the same beliefs and values. She has a princess life not as a tough one like mine everything takes responsibilities.
And, that finally got to her. I lost her to her childish character. I don’t do that crap, so we just didn’t get along as much anymore and couldn’t hang out because all she wanted to do was willing me to keep her company when she need to hang out (dont want to be alone) and badmouthing people. She was the best friend I ever had too. We went through thin and a lot of thick together. She was supportive and always there for me, not. I could tell her anything and we always had so much fun together. We would talk all day and even sometimes email and MSN. It made me sad to look in my inbox and see all our old messages, I miss those days.I could say “I miss her” But in reality, I don’t.I miss the OLD her. That girl I know now, that’s not my best friend. She’s completely changed. Brandwhore, show off her things. Talking ghetto. And, I had to let go. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do, and I’m still working on it.
A mutual friend of us who that attend the same highschool asked me “How’s your friend “***” doing?” I could have lied and said good. But, I was too close with the friend. I told him I honestly didn’t know, and we weren’t friends anymore.It was hard to hear myself say it.
It was just like, her attitude totally changed too. We got in a huge fight over her trying to make her stop to go talking/flirting to guy i am interested to, and her thinking it’s just because I don’t like him. (Which is true, but that’s not why I didn’t want them to talk) I hated seeing her doing that, everytimes i told her Oh!i think i have a crush on someone…and i didnt get in touch with him a lot yet… She will talk to him first and flirt with. And when i told her nvm im not so much into it after seeing them talking to each other. She back off with guy and stop immediately talking to him. Everytimes is like that.
I was completely in love with a guy aka my first love. I make a choice to not telling her when i had a crush on him. But, I can’t resist to not telling her after when I started to get along well with the guy… She’s trying to start getting in touch with. When I know he wasnt interested in me anymore I cry over him almost every day. It broke my heart. He wasn’t worth my tears and stress.
So we had a huge fight about her attitude sorta kinda made up, she apologized and so did I. But, we both knew it would never be the same.
The point is to let you all know no matter what you think, friendships usually don’t last forever. I remember talking with her about our futures, and how we’d be godmothers of our kids and we’d visit each other at work and be each other’s maid of honor in our weddings.
Yeah, not anymore.So, don’t hold onto something that doesn’t exist. That’s what I was doing. You need to let go, and most of the time it’s for the better. If I didn’t, who knows where I would be? Probably outside be a party girl and have a huge amount of debts . I also want to tell you guys to not limit yourself to one friend, that is the mistake I made. I limited myself to her and only hanging out and getting to know her, and now I’m paying for it. I’d take that back too.So, have tons of best friends! Maybe one or two of them will go in the same directions as you go in life. Because honestly, you wouldn’t want to be in my position right now. At this age, everyone already has their friend groups and cliques. And what do I have? No one. Lies, i have so many friends but I don’t know which one of them I am going to get along well for the rest of my life. So, don’t make the mistakes I made. Best friends don’t last forever, so don’t limit yourselves to them and don’t hold on to something that doesn’t exist. You’ll just regret it.True friends are hard to find, so really hold on to them when you do. I hope I find some TRUE friends soon.
with the girls :D <3
Une bonne experience a partager : * ca marrive tres rarement
(Moment de faire l’epicerie)
Avant d’acheter un article (on verifie le prix des articles qu’on achete* evidemment…)
Il y a une promotion pour le cafe Maxwell House…
Je m’en vais dans le rayon cafe, le prix est indique $4.99. Dans l’allee centrale, un peu plus loin $6.49.
(Les caisses libre-service sont presque vide) Je prend mes articles et je les scan, arriver au cafe, ca scan 6.49$ (une asian comme moi, je veux le plus bas prix bien sur) je m’en vais voir la caissiere pour une explication. Elle demande l’aide d’un commis du departement…mais personne vient… elle me demande si c possible de prendre letiquette du prix indique 4.99$… En revenant avec les etiquettes, elle me dit : Vous n’avez pas besoin de les payer, les articles sont gratuits.
(Sachant que si le prix scanner est plus eleve que le prix indique, tu px avoir un article gratuit… mais pas les deux ”la Politique d’exactitude des prix”)
2 pour 1 :O!
”Cette politique prévoit un dédommagement si le prix réclamé à la caisse est plus élevé que le prix indiqué en magasin. Le commerçant doit :
- vous remettre le bien gratuitement, si l’article coûte 10 $ ou moins;
- vous vendre le bien au prix affiché sur la tablette, réduit de 10 $, si le produit coûte plus de 10 $.”